Democracy Newsletter: October, 2024 By Robert Katz and Steve Zolno Going back to Ancient Greece and Rome — and even glimpsing at history prior to that time — there always has been a division among and within human beings about whether they are capable of self-governance or if it is best to cede leadership to an individual. Thus the quandary of whether democracy or authoritarian rule is preferable is rooted deep in the human psyche. When we roamed in tribes the decision to give over authority for decision-making to a leader seemed easiest. But at some point we discovered human dignity, a place within that believes it knows right from wrong and seeks to function from that principle rather than allow another to determine our path. That quandary continues in aspiring democracies around the world where “rule by the people” — always imperfect — still is an aspiration for some, but a lost hope for others. Our own country has teetered between leaders who would shape us in their image, and those who would lead based on respect for the democratic impulse in every person. But never has the choice been clearer whether to cede our authority to someone who has told us he would suspend the Constitution from day one or a leader who would continue us on our imperfect path toward consensual governance. Our guide to our current federal election makes our choice clear. There still are those who would vote for authoritarianism despite its ascendancy around the world in places where human rights and freedoms have been lost. We are also providing a tabulation of the most likely direction of the election if the current polls hold up. The fate of the most successful democracy in history — that has served as a model for all the others — now is in the hands of its people. In a month’s time we will know if ”government by the people” has survived. For the vast majority of our readers — who live in California and the East Bay — guides to the current election are forthcoming. Robert Katz served as a staff attorney and supervising attorney at the California Supreme Court from 1993-2018. Before that he was in private practice representing public agencies, and worked as a newspaper reporter covering local government in Santa Cruz County. Steve Zolno graduated from Shimer College with a bachelor’s degree in social sciences and holds a master’s in educational psychology from Sonoma State University. Steve has founded and directed private schools and a health care agency in the San Francisco Bay Area. He is the author of seven books. Please recommend this newsletter to people who you think might appreciate it. If you want to be added to the email list to receive each new newsletter when written, fill out our contact form and check the box just above the SUBMIT button. You may also use that form to be removed from our list.
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Democracy Newsletter: September 2024 By Steve Zolno I mentioned in a recent Newsletter that I have been working with a diverse group of young people to write a book about democracy for other young people. Many of them are excited about the fact that this is an election year and that they soon will be eligible to vote. I consider this their project and the end product will have their names on it, with old Steve only mentioned as an editor. You might think that this group, who now are becoming high school seniors, are in need of education before they can formulate their ideas about how democracy best can function. But I think it is much the opposite: young people can teach us and each other about the essential purpose of democracy because they have fresh ideas and are less jaded by life experience. Our hope is to distribute this book to young people in parts of the country where curriculums have been limited to avoid providing students a clear picture about mistakes our country has made, and from which we might learn, such as slavery, segregation and the tragic history of how we treated Native Americans. Books throughout the South also have been banned that teach tolerance and understanding for diversity of all kinds — including racial, religious, ethnic and sexual minorities. What I have learned so far from this group is a primer in what I think we all should be looking for in those who seek to represent us in a voting year. The quotes below are from our draft and may not be included in our final product. Our working title is What is Democracy? Democracy comes from the ancient Greek language, and means “rule by the people.” This rarely has been accomplished: in every society — including democracies — there have been those who gain power and want to impose their own interests on others. Human nature always has been both competitive and cooperative. It is no different in our country today, and likely will not change in the future. The difference in democratic situations is that people work together to determine what is the common good, which always is being redefined, and to design the best society possible based on that principle. If politicians represent only one part of the population, they are not working in the interest of “the people.” Democracy can be brought into all life situations: our families, schools, organizations, and governments. Here is what our book says about that so far:
You might think that young people only would want to emphasize their rights and privileges, but that is not the case with this group. They encourage each other, and hopefully those who read our book, to work hard and take responsibility for developing their talents and skills so that they can be the best they can be while contributing to making our democracy strong:
And they also have a clear idea about justice and injustice, no doubt from what they have seen and experienced themselves:
The above is just a sample of the excellent ideas that this group has worked hard to put into words. The final version of our book is quite a way off, but I will give you updates periodically. Next month we will be providing some voting recommendations based on what we believe to be candidates and propositions that best represent democratic principles. Steve Zolno graduated from Shimer College with a bachelor's degree in Social Sciences and holds a master’s in Educational Psychology from Sonoma State University. Steve has founded and directed private schools and a health care agency in the San Francisco Bay Area. He is the author of seven books. Please recommend this newsletter to people who you think might appreciate it. If you want to be added to the email list to receive each new newsletter when written, fill out our contact form and check the box just above the SUBMIT button. You may also use that form to be removed from our list.
Visit our Books page for information about purchasing The Future of Democracy, The Death of Democracy, Truth and Democracy, Guide to Living In a Democracy, Everyday Spirituality for Everyone, The Pursuit of Happiness, and What Love Does. Click ↓ (#) Comments below to view comments/questions or add yours. Click Reply below to respond to an existing comment. Democracy Newsletter: August 2024By Robert Katz The threat to American democracy that a second Trump presidency would be was recently compounded by the Supreme Court’s immunity decision, Trump v. United States, raising even higher the stakes of the next election. The case typifies a court that is bent on abandoning judicial restraint and pursuing an activist right-wing agenda. Before discussing that case, I would recall by way of contrast, another case about a different rogue president decided 50 years prior, United States v. Nixon. In Nixon, the question was whether the president could assert executive privilege in order to quash a subpoena in a criminal prosecution that sought to obtain tapes of Oval Office conversations about the Watergate burglary. The unanimous opinion, written by Chief Justice Warren Burger, a Nixon appointee, held that there was no such broad executive privilege. That privilege could be asserted in certain circumstances, such as where national security is genuinely at stake, and that would be determined by the judge who presides in the case reviewing the material claimed to be privileged in the privacy of his/her chambers. Nixon had to hand over the tapes and resigned shortly thereafter. The decision represented a careful balancing of the need of the president to communicate in confidence about sensitive matters and the needs of the justice system to obtain evidence when crimes are alleged to have been committed. In contrast, the Trump case showed a court that is profoundly out of balance. The majority declared immunity from criminal prosecution for all of the president’s official acts. There is absolute immunity when the president exercises his “core” official powers, the kind that the Constitution explicitly grants to the president alone, such as exercising the pardon power or removing cabinet officials. For official actions that were not “core,” the court said immunity may be either absolute or presumptive, apparently unable to decide which. Even assuming the immunity is presumptive, the prosecutor would have to prove that the prosecution for those acts would not “pose any dangers of intrusion on the authority and functions of the Executive Branch,” a test that, if broadly interpreted, may be virtually impossible for a prosecutor to pass. The court said that the President’s acts would be considered “official” if they were “‘not manifestly or palpably beyond [his] authority.” Finally, the court held that, as even Trump’s lawyers admitted, the president could be prosecuted for unofficial acts; but with “official acts” defined so broadly, the opinion leaves the reader to wonder whether “unofficial acts” will prove to be a vanishingly small category. Where does the majority derive such broad immunity? Not from the text of the Constitution, which explicitly states that an official subject to removal by impeachment, such as the president, can’t be criminally punished by Congress but “shall nevertheless be liable and subject to Indictment, Trial, Judgment and Punishment, according to Law.” Not from historical understanding of original intent: the Sotomayor dissent shows how the framers were clear that presidents were not kings above the law, without so much as hinting that that proposition would be nullified if the president were to be acting in an official capacity. It seems the majority, so often touting its opinions as following the Constitution’s original meaning, use history when it furthers their agenda and ignores it when it does not. It can be admitted that, as in the case of executive privilege, there are circumstances in which presidential immunity is appropriate. Legal scholars would agree that U.S. courts should not be using the criminal law to second-guess a presidential decision to deploy a drone strike to kill an American on foreign soil who is in league with an enemy of the United States. But instead of carefully balancing the need not to inhibit the legitimate exercise of presidential powers with the need to prevent the abuse of those powers to punish political enemies, or for other nefarious ends, the Trump majority focused almost exclusively on the former need and seems blind to the latter. The majority could have crafted a narrower judicial rule that would allow a criminal case against the president to go forward if the presiding judge concludes preliminarily that the evidence clearly shows his manifest abuse of power. The majority appears not to have considered such an option, so preoccupied were they by their focus on protecting presidential power. That is one case, but there were many more. It isn’t hyperbolic to say that the current court is keenly interested in protecting the rights of polluters and other corporate malefactors to challenge government regulations and the rights of gun enthusiasts to the arsenal of their choice, while interested not at all in protecting the rights of women to reproductive health and very little in protecting minority voting rights. These cases, like the immunity decision, show a court profoundly out of balance. The prospect of a man who has regularly flouted the law returning to the world’s most powerful political office under the protection of the Supreme Court’s immunity ruling is chilling to say the least. His defeat, on the other hand, would show that democracy in America is still strong. If that defeat is accompanied by the return of a Democratic majority in Congress, it will allow a President to address another threat to democracy — a Supreme Court consistently guided more by an activist right wing ideology than by a sensible reading of the law. The only effective remedy would be some reform that would change the composition of the court itself and restore balance — and the respect of our citizens — to the nation’s highest tribunal. [Editor’s note: On July 29, President Joe Biden published three proposed reforms for the Supreme Court.] Robert Katz served as a staff attorney and supervising attorney at the California Supreme Court 1993–2018. Please recommend this newsletter to people who you think might appreciate it. If you want to be added to the email list to receive each new newsletter when written, fill out our contact form and check the box just above the SUBMIT button. You may also use that form to be removed from our list.
Visit our Books page for information about purchasing The Future of Democracy, The Death of Democracy, Truth and Democracy, Guide to Living In a Democracy, Everyday Spirituality for Everyone, The Pursuit of Happiness, and What Love Does. Click ↓ (#) Comment[s] below to view comments/questions or add yours. Click Reply below to respond to an existing comment. Democracy Newsletter: July 2024By Steve Zolno Once we were enthusiastic about the possibilities for ourselves and the world. Then “reality” set in — we needed to adjust to the “real” world which demanded we lower our expectations or eliminate them altogether. Our youthful enthusiasm waned or disappeared. Yet still we complained about the state of the world. People were not kind enough. The world was on the wrong track. We saw each other as competitors or enemies and decided we needed to be continually on guard in our everyday functioning. But somewhere inside we still maintained that vision for a better world. I recently met with a group of bright high school students attending a three-week special program based on a grant at my former school, Shimer Great Books School at North Central College. That meeting proved to me that there still is reason to be optimistic about the possibility of moving toward the world in which we want to live. I have long had a vision of writing a book about democracy with young people for other young people. Young people are more likely to listen to each other rather than the staid lessons in history taught them by those who have lost the enthusiasm in their vision and their step. Democracy is not just about how we are governed — or even govern ourselves — but is about a sense of inclusiveness that is not provided by any other political system. It is — when it functions best — about returning us to a world where everyone is valued and we also value ourselves. It includes a strong feeling of belonging to an entity greater than ourselves. It is about returning to a sense of freedom that we believe we once knew. In many parts of our country a cynicism and divisiveness have taken over. In states such as Florida and Texas, curriculums are altered and books are banned to keep children — and adults — from discovering the truth about our history of slavery and discrimination based on one’s race, religion, gender, origin, or sexual preferences, among other areas. Children are taught to judge others and themselves based on their outward characteristics rather than appreciation based on their intrinsic worth. But progress is impossible when we fail to face our history. Young people are pessimistic about themselves and their futures. Many are experiencing despair. Youth suicide rates rose 62% between 2017 and 2021, according to the CDC. The difference between children and adults is that children are eager to learn about others and the world, while adults, for the most part, think they already know what they need to know and thus fail to grow. Yet the gap between what I know and what I have yet to learn — even at my rather advanced age — is vast. When I stop learning I stop growing. Opening ourselves to continual learning is more than just about education. It’s about being and feeling truly alive. If we choose we can replace the cynicism we carry in our minds with an openness to seeing the world anew. We probably can learn to do this best from children, but it ultimately is a decision to acknowledge how little we know and open ourselves to humility. This is what was in clear evidence from the students I interviewed and from whom I already have learned much in a short period of time. This is the principle by which I try to live my life, although I clearly often fall short. Over the next few months I will provide updates for how our project progresses. In the meantime, those upset by the current political climate might ask themselves what they are willing to do beyond complaining. Are you willing to clarify your vision of what democracy looks like and how to move toward that vision? It’s easy to concentrate on what we don’t like, but if we are not clear on what we want to replace it — and unwilling to work toward that — our energy becomes entrapped in a downward spiral. Steve Zolno graduated from Shimer College with a bachelor’s degree in social sciences and holds a master’s in educational psychology from Sonoma State University. Steve has founded and directed private schools and a health care agency in the San Francisco Bay Area. He is the author of seven books. Please recommend this newsletter to people who you think might appreciate it. If you want to be added to the email list to receive each new newsletter when written, fill out our contact form and check the box just above the SUBMIT button. You may also use that form to be removed from our list.
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By Steve Zolno
Our group has been meeting to discuss democracy and related subjects since 2006 and I have been publishing this Newsletter since 2017. I also have written seven books.
Through it all I have been promoting one essential idea: democracy — and our civilization — only can succeed when people commit to action based on a common vision. We have worked to clarify that vision for the entire time our group has been in existence, but it seems to me that most people remain focused on what is wrong with others and the world rather than being willing to identify and move toward what would make it work. Recent research confirms that view. [1]
This is why we are caught in nearly perpetual war, going back to prehistoric times. But when we come from a view of connection with others — or “love” if I can use that word — as we usually do with our families and close friends, we work things out, or at least decide to live with each other in peace. Clarifying a vision and having the commitment to follow through on it are two different things. The US founders stated their vision of “life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness,” but once they won their independence the country struggled for ten years before establishing a Constitution that embodied what they meant. Since then our country has floundered in establishing how “government by and for the people” actually looks. Despite the common view that our crises are larger and more significant than those of the past, the challenges we face remain the same. They are based mainly on how we see others and the world rather than reality itself. As Einstein taught us, and as repeated by many scientists and philosophers since, our perspective on “reality” is limited: we only have our view of things. By discussing our views — and respecting others and those expressing them — we come closer to a common understanding. Truth ultimately is much larger than our limited minds can fathom. But rather than leaving us mired in pessimism, this understanding can lead to profound respect for everything and everyone, including ourselves.
A few lessons I have learned in my study and interactions with many of you over the years:
Which brings us to consciousness, which simply is observation. This allows us to make decisions based more on reality than just reacting to stimuli, as all creatures — including humans — have done as long as we have been on Earth. Thus we always have a choice whether to act based on greater consciousness — which includes seeing others more clearly and opening to their humanity — or remaining in our reactive state based on prejudgments. We are talking about a paradigm where we create our own experience by how we see the world rather than just being victims of circumstance. When we provide empathy and understanding for others we bring those qualities to ourselves.
But doing this takes commitment — at least in my case and maybe also yours. This is the theme of my new book, What Love Does. My real interest is not in selling books, but promoting the idea that the only hope for our planet — and its inhabitants — is focusing on identifying and moving together in concert with our long-term interests, which include recognizing the validity of every human being.
Our next discussion will focus on Chapter I of the book, “The Self,” but if we are to continue our meetings I need to know if there is enough interest, so if planning to attend please email me by June 10 at [email protected]. If anyone can’t afford the book I will send you a copy. The meeting this month will be on June 17 at 7PM Pacific Time. I will send out the meeting link before that date to those who have stated they want to attend. My future may include one more book and possibly a podcast if I can figure out what that is and how to do it. At present my intent is to embark on my annual birthday journey — or “vision quest” — so you might want to keep your locks secured in case I show up on your doorstep. Thanks for listening, and I’ll see you out there. — Steve
NOTES
[1] “If you ask an American when times were worst, the most commons response will be ‘right now.’” See “When America was ‘great’ according to the data,” Washington Post, May 24, 2024. [2] In his later writings, Freud moved beyond his view of sexuality as the key human motivating factor to the alienation of people from their original sense of self: “Originally the ego includes everything, later it detaches itself from the external world.” Civilization and Its Discontents, Sigmund Freud, Page 12. First published in 1930; 2011 version by Martino Publishing. [3] Research shows that, despite our idea of being separate selves, we can share what is in the minds of others: “Neural mirroring solves the ‘problem of other minds’ (how we can access and understand the minds of others) and makes intersubjectivity possible, thus facilitating social behavior.” From the article “Imitation, empathy, and mirror neurons,” Annual Review of Psychology, 2009, 60:653-70. [4] Many studies show that infants have natural empathy and respond to stimuli as if there were no barriers between them and others. See, for example, “The relationship between maternal and infant empathy: The mediating role of responsive parenting,” Frontiers in Psychology 2022; 13: 1061551. [5] In many Eastern religions the real self is the universal presence that continually flows through us. Bhagavad Gita, 2-20: “The Self, which dwells in the body of everyone, is eternal and can never be slain.”
Steve Zolno graduated from Shimer College with a bachelor’s degree in social sciences and holds a master’s in educational psychology from Sonoma State University. Steve has founded and directed private schools and a health care agency in the San Francisco Bay Area. He is the author of seven books.
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Visit our Books page for information about purchasing The Future of Democracy, The Death of Democracy, Truth and Democracy, Guide to Living In a Democracy, Everyday Spirituality for Everyone, The Pursuit of Happiness, and What Love Does. Click ↓ (#) Comments below to view comments/questions or add yours. Click Reply below to respond to an existing comment. Democracy Newsletter: May 2024By Steve Zolno Our discussion for April 8 was about Sigmund Freud’s book Civilization and Its Discontents. It was written toward the end of Freud’s career, in 1930. In his later years, Freud adopted the view that aggression and competition are our most significant motivating factors, replacing his emphasis on sexuality: “The impression forces itself upon one that men measure by false standards, that everyone seeks power, success, riches for himself and admires others who attain them, while undervaluing the truly precious things in life” (Page 7). So we read further to determine what he thought were the precious things in life. Perhaps he means love as one of those precious things: “Normally there is nothing we are more certain of than the feeling of our self, our ego. … At its height the feeling of being in love threatens to obliterate the boundaries between ego and subject” (Page 10). Is he saying that the ego finds fulfillment in its own obliteration? Perhaps the feeling of connection with the mother (and thus the world) is the original state to which we long to return. Another term for this seeking is the Pleasure Principle: “The adult’s sense of his own ego cannot have been the same from the beginning. It must have undergone a development, which naturally cannot be demonstrated, but which admits of reconstruction with a fair degree of probability. When the infant at the breast receives stimuli, he cannot as yet distinguish whether they come from his ego or from the outer world. … The tendency arises to dissociate from the ego everything which can give rise to pain, to cast it out and create a pure pleasure-ego, in contrast to the threatening outside” (Page 11). He still views religion in psychological terms, as a continuation of the infantile dependence on the father: “I could not point to any need in childhood so strong as that for the father’s protection. … The derivation of the religious feeling can be followed back in clear outline as far as the child’s feeling of helplessness” (Page 21), and “Religion [assures man] that Providence is watching over him … [in the form of] a greatly exalted father. The whole thing is … patently infantile [and] incongruous with reality” (Page 23). Another key motivation, according to Freud, is avoiding the inevitable pain of life by distracting ourselves, similarly to Becker’s Denial of Death: “Life as we find it is too hard for us; it entails too much pain, too many disappointments, impossible tasks. We cannot do without palliative remedies [such as] powerful diversions of interest, which leads us to care little about our misery; substitute gratification, which lessens it; and intoxicating substances, which make us insensitive to it” (Page 25). For Freud, there is no answer to a key question: “ ‘What is the purpose of life?’ has been asked times without number; it never has received a satisfactory answer” (Page 26). On happiness: “[People] seek happiness…There are two sides to this striving…it aims on the one hand at eliminating pain and discomfort, on the other at the experience of intense pleasures,” but “The task of avoiding pain forces that of obtaining happiness into the background” (Pages 27–28). Freud seems to approve of love as a path to happiness more than religion: “Love…does not turn away from the outer world; on the contrary, it takes a firm hold of its objects and obtains happiness from an emotional relation to them” (Page 37). But then, loss of the love object [person] causes suffering: “We are never so defenseless against suffering as when we love, never so forlornly unhappy as when we have lost our love object” (Page 38). He tells us that happiness, at least in the long term, is not possible, but working to attain it still is a noble objective: “The goal toward which the pleasure principle impels us — of becoming happy — is not attainable; yet we cannot give up the effort to come nearer to realization of it by some means or other” (Page 39). And it is best to focus on multiple sources of happiness to avoid disappointment: “Just as a cautious businessman avoids investing all his capital in one concern, so wisdom would probably admonish us not to anticipate all our happiness from one quarter” (Page 41). Now we get to the gist of his argument. Is human unhappiness caused by civilization or our view of things? “According to [one point of view] our so-called civilization itself is to blame for a great part of our misery” (Page 44). And it seems that all of human progress has not made us happier: “But men are beginning to perceive that all this newly won power over space and time, this conquest of the forces of nature, this fulfillment of age-old longings, has not increased the amount of pleasure they can obtain in life, has not made them feel any happier” (Page 46). So Freud seems to take the view of Hobbes (Leviathan) that our basic state is misery and aggression, which leads to the necessity that civilization is needed to reign us in: “And what do we gain by a long life when it is full of hardship and starved of joys and so wretched that we only can welcome death as our deliverer” (Page 48), and “Human life in communities only becomes possible when a number of men unite together in strength superior to any single individual and remain united against all single individuals” (Page 59). Yet our quest for freedom seems a basic human attribute: “[Man] will always defend his claim to individual freedom against the will of the multitude” (Page 61). Getting back to sex, he claims that marriage is an essential conduit for the sexual instinct: “Present-day civilization gives us to understand that sexual relations are permitted only on the basis of a final, indissoluble bond between a man and woman” (Page 77). He comments on the impossibility of living up to our moral standards, largely because we are incapable of it, but also because there are those who don’t deserve to be treated according to the tenet of “Love thy neighbor as thyself.” “Not merely is this stranger on the whole not worthy of love, but I must confess he has more claim to my hostility, even to my hatred” (Page 83). Freud tells us that our laws are incapable of modifying our basic aggressive nature because it is part of our daily thoughts and actions: “Civilization expects to prevent the world’s atrocities of brutal violence by taking upon itself the right to employ violence against criminals, but the law is not able to lay hands on the more discreet and subtle forms in which human aggressions are expressed” (Page 87). Love, he believes, is built into us because it is part of our survival mechanism: “It is easy to discover this motive in man’s helplessness and dependence on others; it can best be designated the dread of losing love. If he loses the love of others on whom he is dependent, he will forfeit also their protection against many dangers, and above all he runs the risk that this stronger person will show his superiority in the form of punishing him” (Page 107). Freud claims that it is only our conscience, or super-ego, that keeps a check on our aggression: “A great change takes place as soon as the authority has been internalized by the development of a super-ego. … As long as things go well with a man, his conscience is lenient and lets the ego do all kinds of things; when some calamity befalls, he holds an inquisition within, discovers his sin, heightens the standards of his conscience, imposes abstinence on himself and punishes himself with penances” (Pages 108–110). Because of our internalized sense of guilt, we have the same sensation if we only contemplate aggression: “A mere intention to commit an act of violence could evoke a sense of guilt” (Page 129). So, we are told to believe, ethics is not as much about upholding our ideals as doing all we can to avoid the guilt caused by our internal tendency toward aggression: “The cultural super-ego has elaborated its ideals and erected its standards. Those of its demands which deal with the relations of human beings to one another are comprised under the name of ethics” (Page 138). Steve Zolno graduated from Shimer College with a bachelor’s degree in social sciences and holds a master’s in educational psychology from Sonoma State University. Steve has founded and directed private schools and a health care agency in the San Francisco Bay Area. He is the author of seven books. Please recommend this newsletter to people who you think might appreciate it. 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But the author doesn’t seem to have a positive view of the role of heroism in society: “One of the key concepts for understanding man’s urge to heroism is the idea of narcissism. Narcissism is what keeps men marching point blank into wars: at heart one doesn’t feel he will die … Freud’s explanation for this was that the unconscious does not know death or time: in man’s inner organic recesses we feel immortal” (Page 2). Another way he states we deny death is by accumulation: ‘We disguise our struggle by piling up figures in a bank book to reflect privately our sense of heroic worth. Or by having only a little better home in the neighborhood, or a bigger car” (Page 4). Animals have a survival instinct, but humans are aware of themselves as individuals which leads to fear of death and a whole different level of self-preservation: “Animals in order to survive have had to be protected by fear-responses, in relationship not only to other animals but to nature itself … .Reality and fear go together naturally. Man’s fears are fashioned out of the ways he sees the world” (Pages 13–14). Our idea of ourselves as separate from nature adds to our fear of death, but in reality all ends in anonymity: “Man has a symbolic identity that brings him sharply out of nature. He is a creature with a name, a life history. He is a creator with a mind that soars out to speculate about atoms and infinity … .This self-consciousness gives man the status of a small god … at the same time man is food for worms” (Page 26). Like many writers, Becker considers childhood a state where life is lived fully until we learn to restrict ourselves with rules that crimp our emotions and full participation in activities: “Children feel hounded by … verbal demands … rules and codes … that call them away from their pleasure in the straightforward expression of their natural energies” (Page 28). But as adults, we are able to maintain our full participation in life to the extent we can bring love into it: “Love … allows the collapse of the individual into the animal dimension (of sexuality and his beast-like nature) without fear and guilt” (Page 42). As does Kierkegaard, the author states that full participation in life brings uncertainty: “Full humanness means full fear and trembling … The world as it really is is devastating and terrifying” (Pages 59–60). Parents should do all they can to avoid instilling a fear of living fully into their children: “Just as Rousseau and Dewey, Kierkegaard is warning the parent to let the child do his own exploration of the world and develop his own sure experimental powers” (Page 71). But parents still need to provide some guidance: “On the other hand, children are best not left totally free if they are to develop a confident sense of how to navigate life” (Page 75). The author considers depression to be a condition created by denial of death. But here he begins to reveal that what he also means is fear of being — and expressing — oneself: “The depressed person is so afraid of being himself, of exerting his own individuality … that he seems stupid. … One can hardly breathe or move” (Page 79). Which leads to his model for how we can live when not continually affected by fear (which is much like his idea of how children express themselves when not inhibited): “The ‘healthy’ person … is the one who has transcended himself … by realizing the truth of his situation, by dispelling the lie of his character, by breaking his spirit out of its conditioned prison. The prison of one’s character is built … to deny one’s creatureliness [a word the author made up]” (Pages 86-87). This is not an easy existence: “It means that one lives unprotected by armor, exposed to his aloneness and helplessness” (Page 90). The main theme comes through when he challenges Freud: “Consciousness of death is the primary repression, not sexuality [Page 96]. … He was haunted by death anxiety all his life and admitted that not a day went by that he did not think about it” (Page 102). Now we get into the relevance of his views to history, and to democracy: “We know that all through history the masses have followed leaders because of the magic aura they projected, because they seemed larger than life … .Men don’t become slaves out of mere calculating self-interest; the slavishness is in the soul” (Page 127). He is telling us that fear of death causes people to seek immortality by joining movements that tie them to history and the greatness that outlives the lives of individuals. From this view we can learn the relevance of movements in which joiners avoid responsibility — in their own minds — for actions that they likely would not take on their own: “When people give in to the leader’s commands they can always reserve the feeling that … [their acts] are the leader’s responsibility [Page 137]. … [and] The leader projects onto his followers his own inability to stand alone” (Page 139). Whereas in democracy, when it functions best, it is the responsibility of individuals to combine forces to best serve the needs of everyone. Then the author takes us into what some may call the spiritual realm: “The person reaches out naturally for a self beyond his own self in order to know who he is, in order to feel that he belongs in the universe … It seems that the life force reaches naturally even beyond the earth itself, which is one reason man has always placed God in the heavens” (Pages 152–153). This leads to a conflict between what we might consider the individual self and the transcendental self: “Man wants to expand by merging with the powerful beyond that transcends him yet he wants to remain individual and aloof” (Page 155). Love is another way we attempt to transcend ourselves: “If the love object is divine perfection, then one’s own self is elevated by joining one’s destiny to it” (Page 161). But in the reality of our everyday lives: “The individual has to protect himself against the world. He can only do this as any other animal would: by narrowing down the world, shutting off experience” (Page 177). A primary consideration is not gaining more knowledge, but using what we know: “The great characteristic of our time is that we know everything important about human nature there is to know. Yet never has there been an age in which so little knowledge is securely possessed, so little a part of the common understanding” (Page 209). Perhaps convincing others, and even ourselves, of the correctness of our views, ties us to ideas that transcend us, and provides a glimpse of immortality: “People try so hard to win converts for their point of view because it is more than merely an outlook on life: it is an immortality formula” (Page 255). So we try to become immortal by tying ourselves to grand ideas or what we consider the wisdom of the gods: “There is no way to overcome creature anxiety unless one is god and not a creature” (Page 261). Which leads to the concept of transference that is an essential principle in psychoanalysis: “The prophets of unrepression simply have not understood human nature; they envision a utopia with perfect freedom from inner restraint and outer authority … .Men need transference because they need to see their morality embodied” (Page 266). But all our efforts at immortality are for naught because in a few generations we will be forgotten: “Man feels agonizingly unique, and yet knows this doesn’t make any difference [because] he has to go the way of the grasshopper” (Page 269). Nevertheless, the author holds that happiness is possible: “Mental illness is due to ‘problems of living,’ but we must remember that life itself is the insurmountable problem. … When a person becomes less fragmented, less blocked and bottled up, he does experience real joy” (Page 270). He lived and taught at Berkeley in the age of Transcendental Psychology and Maslow. But, according to the author, moving past our worst fears only lands us in the world of normal, everyday anxiety: “Freud said he cured the miseries of the neurotic only to open him to the normal misery of life” (Page 271). The evils of the world are not only in our minds, but on the outside, in the nature of our everyday lives: “Taking life seriously means something like this: whatever man does on this planet has to be done in the lived truth of the terror of creation” (Page 283). So we distract ourselves from the reality of everyday life: “Modern man is drinking and drugging himself out of awareness, or he spends his time shopping, which is the same thing. … Society contrives to help him forget” (Page 284). Perhaps the ultimate questions that Becker poses are: “Are our lives less full and satisfying because we live in constant fear of disappointment?” or “Do we deprive ourselves of the full enjoyment of life because we are afraid to live fully?” We will get into answers to these questions in further discussions. On the second Monday in April, we will be discussing Freud’s classic Civilization and Its Discontents which deals with how society both serves and alienates us. And in May we will discuss a new book by someone you know that might suggest some answers to these questions. Steve Zolno graduated from Shimer College with a bachelor’s degree in Social Sciences and holds a master’s in Educational Psychology from Sonoma State University. Steve has founded and directed private schools and a health care agency in the San Francisco Bay Area. He is the author of six books. Please recommend this newsletter to people who you think might appreciate it. If you want to be added to the email list to receive each new newsletter when posted, fill out our contact form and check the box just above the SUBMIT button. You may also use that form to be removed from our list.
Visit our Books page for information about purchasing The Future of Democracy, The Death of Democracy, Truth and Democracy, Guide to Living In a Democracy, Everyday Spirituality for Everyone, and The Pursuit of Happiness. Click ↓ (#) Comments below to view comments/questions or add yours. Click Reply below to respond to an existing comment. Democracy Newsletter: March 2024By Steve Zolno Our discussion for February 12, 2024 was on the book Surviving Our Catastrophes [hardcover] [Kindle], by Robert Jay Lifton, published September, 2023. The author points out that catastrophes always have been with us, but there are ways for us to become less overwhelmed by them. They have varied from war to pandemics to personal trauma. He states that experiencing a catastrophe can affect us physically as well as mentally, making us less able to move through life and confront our daily challenges (Page 4). Many books have been written about survivors who have adopted means to help them cope and move on. Sharing those experiences with others — which has the potential to make them meaningful — can have a healing effect (Page 5). Lifton (who is 97) interviewed Hiroshima survivors who carried the trauma of that bombing with them. But many were able to convert their trauma to anti-nuclear activism which gave their lives meaning (Page 11). The author quotes from the diary of an occupant of the Warsaw ghetto: “The worst part of this ugly death is you don’t know the reason for it.” This individual was typical of those who have lost hope and were unable to find meaning in their situation (Page 27). Some survivors of catastrophes close themselves off altogether from their memory of the event and experience what the author calls “doubling” — establishing a separate inner personality that is hidden from the world as that individual refuses to discuss the event (Page 29). Other survivors can become angry at the world and vent that anger repeatedly to those around them (Page 31). Catastrophes, or fear of them, that affect large numbers of people, like the Black Plague of the 1300s, the 1918 flu epidemic, or our recent Covid pandemic, can contribute to what the author calls “a general apocalyptic aura where fear is widespread.” (Page 37) The author discusses the apocalyptic narrative in some religions that predict a violent end to the world, but with a glorious resurrection for believers, as occurs in the Judaic and Christian traditions (Page 38). Those who survive large catastrophes can have survivor’s guilt while they mourn for what they have lost. In some cases, such as the 2001 attack on the World Trade Center, widely shared mourning can contribute to healing (Page 65). Jacques Lacan, the French psychoanalyst, wrote about those who refuse to mourn but instead hold on to a hope to avenge themselves, Shakespeare’s Hamlet as an example (Page 68). These people remain psychologically stuck because they refuse to fully experience their mourning. Collective mourning for mass losses, such as the soldiers whose lives were lost in the Vietnam war, is a beginning to healing for those affected by such events: “In collective mourning the sharing is the essence of the process.” (Page 72) This also may include the naming of the dead. There are many survivor groups that support each other during meetings, speaking out, and even starting organizations to champion their cause (Page 87). This has been done by groups composed of victims of mass school shooting, both parents and children. Lifton identifies climate change as a “looming catastrophe” (Page 93). “Climate scientists have identified some of those effects as very much present in our immediate world and as posing a threat to human civilization over the course of this century.” He expresses hope that enough people will see it that way so that the urgent action needed to prevent climate change from being an irreversible catastrophe will be taken. Most of the American public sees this threat, but we are distracted by other catastrophes that may keep us from focusing on it. How do we learn the lessons that we need from our history of catastrophes? “They can be passed down, directly or informally, through word of mouth in families and communities, and sometimes taught in schools. But they also can be given more public structure in memorials and commemorative events.” (Page 108) Hopefully we have learned enough to successfully deal with future catastrophes that inevitably will occur: “We need to confront whatever catastrophe we experience and recognize its interaction with everyday life.” (Page 131) Steve Zolno graduated from Shimer College with a bachelor’s degree in Social Sciences and holds a master’s in Educational Psychology from Sonoma State University. Steve has founded and directed private schools and a health care agency in the San Francisco Bay Area. He is the author of six books. 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Visit our Books page for information about purchasing The Future of Democracy, The Death of Democracy, Truth and Democracy, Guide to Living In a Democracy, Everyday Spirituality for Everyone, and The Pursuit of Happiness. Click ↓ (#) Comments below to view comments/questions or add yours. Click Reply below to respond to an existing comment. Democracy Newsletter: February 2024By Steve Zolno Our discussion for January 8, 2024, was about the book How to Know a Person, The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen, by David Brooks, published October 2023. David Brooks is a conservative columnist known for his articles in the media. He often is seen and heard on talk shows, recently while promoting his new book. His books are primarily about how to improve our communication with others and this new one is particularly popular and well-read. The message he is increasingly conveying in his books and interviews is that politics is personal; if we want a world that functions well, we need to improve our ability to communicate. Brooks makes it clear that he now is aiming higher than simply prescribing how people should interact. He describes what he considers the wisdom that we can bring into our interactions to make them — and the world — function more effectively: “Wise people don’t just possess information; they possess a compassionate understanding of other people. … Being open-hearted is a prerequisite for being a full, kind and wise human being. But it is not enough. People need social skills.” (Page 7) He is concerned about how many people feel unable to be heard and thus are alienated: “It seems like we have intentionally built a society that gives people little guidance on how to perform the most important activities of life. As a result, a lot of us are lonely and lack deep friendships. … Above almost any other need, human beings long to have another person look into their face with loving respect and acceptance. On social media you can have the illusion of social contact without having to perform the gestures that actually build trust, care, and affection.” (Page 8) One of the most important skills we can develop is empathy: “Life goes a lot better if you can see things from other people’s points of view. … There is something to being seen that brings forth growth.” (Page 11) For democracy to survive, we need to be able to communicate with those with whom we disagree to establish and work toward common goals: “To survive, pluralistic societies require citizens who can look across differences and show the kind of understanding that is a prerequisite of trust.” (Page 12) And an essential part of that is empathy, or seeing the world as others see it. Rather, we tend to group people into categories based on gender, race, etc. and fail to see their individuality: “People belong to groups and there’s a natural tendency to make generalizations about them.” (Page 22) We even can do this with people we love. At the most essential level, all of us are equal: “If you consider that each person has a soul, you will be aware that each person has some transcendent spark inside them. You will be aware that at the deepest level we all are equals.” (Page 31) Much of our emotional connection with others is done on an unconscious level: “Through small talk and doing mundane stuff together your unconscious mind is moving with mine and we’re getting a sense of each other’s energy, temperament, and manner.” (Page 45) This especially happens with children. The best communicators, writers, teachers and even friends guide people to come to their own solutions rather than providing answers for them: “A [good] teacher could offer the answers, but he wants to walk with his students as they figure out how to solve a problem … Writers are at their best not when they tell people what to think but when they provide a context within which others can think. … When someone is going through a hard time you don’t need to say some wise thing, you just have to be there with heightened awareness of what they are going through at that moment.” (Page 52) Whether or not there is such a thing as objective reality, we each see events through the lens of our background and experience: “ Every person takes the events of life and, over time, creates a very personal way of seeing the world. … People don’t see the world with their eyes; they see it with their entire life.” (Page 64) In our conversations we need to open ourselves to the viewpoint of the other person in order to really communicate. A serious lack in our educational system is that we are not taught to listen to each other, but often try to outdo each other in our interactions: “We should explicitly teach people, from a young age, how to be good conversationalists.” (Page 74) Conversations are much more productive when seen as mutual exploration of truth. Loneliness seems to be increasing in our time: “Between 1999 and 2019, American suicide rates increased by 33%. Between 2009 and 2019, the percentage of teens who reported “persistent feelings of sadness or hopelessness rose from 26 to 37%. … People were spending much more time alone.” (Page 98) This may be contributing to the increasing alienation among many young people. Our political situation may be adding to feelings of isolation and polarization: “Politics seems to offer a comprehensible moral landscape. We the children of light, are facing off against them, the children of darkness. Politics seems to offer a sense of belonging. I am on the barricades with the other members of my tribe. Politics seems to offer an arena of moral action. To be moral in this world, you don’t have to feed the hungry or sit with the widow. You just have to feel properly enraged at the people you find contemptible.” (Page 101) Although a long-time political commentator, Brooks give low marks to politics as a route to personal satisfaction: “If you attempt to assuage your sadness, loneliness, or anomie through politics, it will do nothing more than land you in a world marked by sadistic striving for domination.” (Page 102) Neither does he seem to think that our society provides adequate guidance for how to lead a satisfying life: “Ultimately, the sadness and dehumanization pervading society leads to violence. … Look at many of the young men who commit horrific shootings. They are ghosts. In school, no one knows them. … These young men often have no social skills.” And “As a society, we have failed to teach the skills and cultivate the inclination to treat each other with kindness, generosity and respect.” (Page 104) “Most important is that we “teach moral and social skills.” (Page 106) Beneath every conversation, Brooks tells us, is the actual conversation, that conveys the emotions and message of divisiveness that people hear: “The actual conversation occurs in the ebb and flow of underlying emotions that get transmitted as we talk.” (Page 114) Getting to know a person includes opening up to hearing how the other sees the world, which also expands our own understanding: “Each mind constructs its own reality.” (Page 133) We each have periods of self-doubt which we carry with us our entire lives: “Every child, even from birth, is looking for answers to the basic questions of life: Am I safe? How does love work? Am I worthy? Will I be cared for?” (Page 135) “Our self-doubt can translate into fear of looking or feeling bad: “Emotions and relationships have hurt me, so I will minimize emotions and relationships.” (Page 138) The models in our minds help us anticipate how others might act, but we also can exaggerate our fear of others which prevents us from seeing them and interacting based on reality rather than our projections: “Each of us goes around with certain models in our head that shape how we see the world. You build these models early in life and they work for you. They help you defend yourself from abuse or neglect [but] a person with an overreactive defense architecture is thinking, My critics or opponents are not just wrong, they are evil. Such a person perceives apocalyptic threats coming from all directions and seizes on conspiracy theories that explain the malevolent forces all around. … Angry people always are in search of others they can be angry at.” (Pages 139-41) Looking inside ourselves may not work to improve our interactions with people: “Introspection isn’t the best way to repair your model; communication is.” (Page 143) And the most productive communication is based on empathy — a willingness to really hear the other person: “Empathy is a set of social and emotional skills. … A person who is good at mirroring is quick to experience the emotions of the person in front of them, to reenact in his own body the emotions the other person is holding in hers.” (Pages 144–46) Brooks discusses how we carry two, sometimes competing, characteristics within us: “We humans are divided creatures. We have these primitive, powerful voices within us — passions such as lust, rage, fear, greed, and ambition. But people also possess reason, which they can use to control, tame, and regulate those passions.” (Page 170) When we train our children to hopefully be responsible citizens, we want to encourage them to develop positive behaviors. This is best done by modeling and pointing out positive ways to act rather than criticizing actions we want to discourage: “Instead of calling attention to the behavior you want your child to stop, call attention to the behavior you want them to do.” (Page188) In the larger picture, empathy allows us to identify with the deep feelings of all members of the human race: “The person with interpersonal consciousness can not only experience other peoples’ experiences, she can experience the experience of humanity as a whole.” (Page 196) Brooks makes an important point about identity politics where we tend to assume we know about people based on their outer characteristics: “A black woman could be wise or foolish, compassionate or callous, considerate or cruel. … Today, in our identity politics world, we are constantly reducing people to their categories: Black/white, gay/straight, Republican/Democrat. It’s a first-class way to dehumanize others and not see individuals.” (Page 235) The author shares a number of thoughts about what he thinks constitutes wisdom in contrast to knowledge. Wisdom looks at the big picture and the long-range potential of people and situations rather than reacting only to the immediate situation: “Wise people don’t tell you what to do; they help you process your own thoughts and emotions. … The knowledge that results from your encounter with a wise person is personal and contextual, not a generalization that can be captured in a maxim,” and: “The wise person sees your gifts and potential, even the ones you do not see. … We all know people who are smart. But that doesn’t mean they are wise.” (Pages 249-50) Ultimately, developing a capacity for compassion is what best serves us and those with whom we interact: “She who looks with the eyes of compassion and understanding will see complex souls, suffering and soaring, navigating life as best they can.” (Page 270) Steve Zolno graduated from Shimer College with a bachelor’s degree in Social Sciences and holds a master’s in Educational Psychology from Sonoma State University. Steve has founded and directed private schools and a health care agency in the San Francisco Bay Area. He is the author of six books. Please recommend this newsletter to people who you think might appreciate it. If you want to be added to the email list to receive each new newsletter when posted, fill out our contact form and check the box just above the SUBMIT button. You may also use that form to be removed from our list.
Visit our Books page for information about purchasing The Future of Democracy, The Death of Democracy, Truth and Democracy, Guide to Living In a Democracy, Everyday Spirituality for Everyone, and The Pursuit of Happiness. Click ↓ (#) Comments below to view comments/questions or add yours. Click Reply below to respond to an existing comment. Democracy Newsletter: January 2024By Steve Zolno Our discussion for December 13, 2023, centered around the book The Four Pivots: Reimagining Justice, Reimagining Ourselves, by Shawn A. Ginwright, 2022. The author is an Oakland activist who runs a program for inner-city youth to help them move in the direction of identifying their strengths and working toward careers. He also is on advisory boards at both Stanford and Harvard universities. Perhaps the most important theme of this book is, no matter how much change we may be able to make in the world, it doesn’t necessarily lead to personal healing: “I’ve come to realize that as a society, we don’t really do a good job at preparing, teaching, or training people how to be vulnerable, cultivate empathy, practice self-reflection — all the stuff that makes us human.” (Page 2) Personal transformation is an essential part of the task to transform society: “Just like the absence of disease doesn’t constitute health, the absence of violence doesn’t constitute peace” (Page 7) … and part of the process of changing society is agreeing on a clear vision forward: “Our work at social change has become an effort to make better maps without a clear, compelling destination.” (Page 12) Our inveterate tribalism often keeps us from seeing the other person beyond our preconceptions: “An issue that keeps us from progressing is the extreme polarization in our society that keeps us from being able to have a genuine conversation.” (Page 15) The author reminds us that our judgments of others sometimes lead us to consider them less than human, which makes genuine dialogue impossible: “No human is intrinsically better or worse than the next. While it’s true that the conditions of our lives are different, we should be careful not to confuse the conditions of a human with the quality of the human themselves.” (Page 16) It is easy to think that an accurate description of a problem fixes it. But to move forward, we must agree on a vision and a way to approach it: “Our tendency is to get locked into hindsight and never move past it. I’ve seen this happen with community activists, social service professionals, and corporate leaders.” (Page 46) Truth and truth-telling are essential elements of both personal and societal growth. In 1955, Mamie Till, mother of Emmet Till, received the murdered body of her 14-year-old son. Rather than just bury him, she held an open-casket funeral to which thousands eventually came: “It was perhaps her truth-telling that sparked the movement for civil rights. … Researchers … learned that if you care about someone, you are more likely to be honest with them. But research also shows that speaking truth to power is good for our health.” (Page 57) We cannot move forward in a meaningful way unless we first clarify the direction we want to go. Being anti-racist or anti-war doesn’t clarify the kind of society we want: “It is not enough to define our work by what it is in opposition to. … Do we want to live in an anti-racist society or a society based in belonging?” (Page 83) One way to transform society is to provide opportunities for young people on a path toward criminal behavior to see themselves as capable of developing talents to contribute to society. It is not easy to turn people around who are headed in the wrong direction, but programs that show them support and have them learns skills that change their self-image often work: “If someone is willing to see these young men as human, even when they show up with inhumane behavior, it affords them the ability to act from their core rather than as the person society conditioned them to be.” (Page 103) In experiments with young children, they consistently show empathy for others, a quality that often is eventually unlearned. The author asserts that those qualities can be relearned: “Research illustrates that we have been hardwired to care, and we neurologically are wired to connect with others, because mirror neurons in our brains are stimulated when we’re interacting with other people. Care is our collective capacity to express concern and empathy for one another. It requires that we act in ways that protect, defend, and advance the dignity of all human beings, animals and the environment.” (Pages 120–21) In our interactions, we often take on a rigid position that prevents us from hearing the other person and working together toward solutions: “Most of the time we don’t question what we see; we just act on it as if it were true. When we make a pivot in our perspective and become aware that it is limited we … pull back and become curious about a possible bigger picture.” (Page 154) We only can progress toward the society we want by clarifying and working toward that vision. Focusing only on what we don’t want doesn’t move us forward: “We can never achieve what we want simply by pointing out what we don’t. This is why I’m cautious about the term anti-racist. It does a good job of articulating an active and engaged stance against racism but what comes after that? Being racist and anti-racist are two sides of the ‘not’ coin, which never gets us to what we really need and want, which is belonging.” (Page 177) The polarization in our country and world, where people see those with whom they disagree as the enemy, and often less than human, only can be overcome when at least those on one side of the divide agree that they must see the others as equal human beings: “Has our country become so divided that we see each other as evil, the ultimate form of dehumanization? I have to see you as human, even if you refuse to believe that I am.” (Page 188) If we are constantly stressed by the state of our world and our efforts to fix it, then there is very little reward for us in the present. Just as important is learning to create a sense of inner peace as well as outer peace while our struggle continues: “Justice is not only an outside game that comes from marches, rallies and legal victories. It also is an inside game that requires we cultivate spaces of solitude, reflection, and vision. … Grace is giving ourselves and others undeserved permission to be human. … It’s hard to practice grace with others if we don’t first practice it with ourselves. In our journey to create a more just world, all of us must learn to be more human and lean into the courage to create a world based on love and justice.” (Pages 233–35) Steve Zolno graduated from Shimer College with a bachelor’s degree in Social Sciences and holds a master’s in Educational Psychology from Sonoma State University. Steve has founded and directed private schools and a health care agency in the San Francisco Bay Area. He is the author of six books. Please recommend this newsletter to people who you think might appreciate it. If you want to be added to the email list to receive each new newsletter when posted, fill out our contact form and check the box just above the SUBMIT button. 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Steve ZolnoSteve Zolno is the author of the book The Future of Democracy and several related titles. He graduated from Shimer College with a Bachelor’s Degree in Social Sciences and holds a Master’s in Educational Psychology from Sonoma State University. He is a Management and Educational Consultant in the San Francisco Bay Area and has been conducting seminars on democracy since 2006. Archives
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